Tips On How To Choose Jewellery For Your Loved One This Christmas

Some people shy away from buying jewellery for their partner at Christmas time for several reasons. They worry about what if they don't like it, what if it doesn't fit, can they change it if needed? However, if you follow a few guidelines regarding the type of jewellery you buy and where you buy it from there really isn't a problem and I know that over the years I've been delighted to receive and also give some gorgeous pieces of jewellery which have been truly treasured both by myself and the recipients of my gifts.

Where To Buy Jewellery

Although traditionally it has been the high-street where we would have shopped for jewellery, there is now such a fantastic on-line choice, that I can personally can't be bothered to fight my way through the frantic Christmas shoppers and would rather sit at home with my laptop and a glass of vino and chill whilst shopping. I find that shopping this way means I spend much more time and care choosing an item rather than when standing in a queue in a shop where you can sometimes be pushed into making a hurried purchase which you regret buying by the time you reach home.

In addition, the best on-line stores offer up to 30 days for returns, which does mean that they will at least exchange gifts, if not offer a full refund, if the jewellery is returned unworn - so there is no pressure about return deadlines being passed if you shop in December. If you are ever worried about the security of a website look for the "SafeBuy" logo which offers the buyer all, or more, protection than when buying from a high-street store.

Don't get me wrong - I have nothing against the traditional jewellery shop if you are buying for yourself - you can try on the item of jewellery - but, for gift buying there are no real advantages especially in the busy Christmas season.

What Type Of Jewellery To Buy

Different items of jewellery can mean different things - if you have only recently met someone you might want to buy something less personal than a Tiffany heart ring, however, you are the one who knows how you feel about the person - and jewellery can sometimes say so much more than words. Here are some suggestions:

  • Earrings - these are a perfect gift for a girl (or boy), they are not too personal, making them great for someone you maybe haven't known too long. Studs can be worn by most, but if you want a more glamorous gift go for something more exotic and dangly.
  • Pendants - again perfect for friends to give to each other, but they can be more personal when you buy a heart pendant for a loved one, or a romantic locket.
  • Necklaces - if your loved one (usually a girl in this case) loves dressing up you can be sure they will love necklaces, as they usually give a more decorative effect than a pendant.
  • Bracelets and bangles - even when people don't wear these day to day, they are a great "special occasion" present. There's nothing like having a sparkling bracelet which you have stashed away to wear on a special night out. More and more men are wearing bracelets or cuffs - I'm not talking about the old gold heavy-weight chain bracelets (think Eastenders), but brushed stainless steel or sterling silver bracelets are really stylish.
  • Rings - As long as sizing isn't an issue here (come now - its pretty easy to find a ring your partner already wears and measure it with a piece of paper, string etc) these are perfect gifts for men or women. For the more romantic of you, it's a way of saying I love you, but there are great silver or stainless steel contemporary designs which can be given between friends or to family.

If you are last-minute shopping in the next couple of weeks a gorgeous piece of sparkly stuff can sometimes be the answer.

What has been the most successful Christmas present you have ever purchased?